Is reading overrated?

Chances are if you’re reading this that’s all you’re doing. You might be eating breakfast or possibly doing a chore. Maybe you’re folding laundry and glancing back and forth at these words. If so, you’re not giving it your full attention, so you might miss the part where I mention the lima beans, and later when I refer again to the lima beans, you’ll have no idea what I’m talking about.

But the greatest likelihood is that you’re immersed in these words and doing nothing else.

How inefficient. How lazy.

Reading is held up as an unassailable virtue. Countless articles have been written about the value of reading. But who writes those articles? Writers, the very people who benefit from all that reading.

But if we step back for a minute, we might fall over this cliff, so be careful.

Getting back to the subject, objectively, reading is flawed.

For starters, reading is referred to as an escape, and that’s exactly what it is: an escape from all the other things you should be doing. Why, just the other day, I should have been defrizzing the cat, as per the court order, but instead I immersed myself in the novel Reservoir 13 by Jon McGregor, a lyrical account of a sleepy English village in the wake of a young girl’s disappearance. This type of procrastination is no different than me playing online Scrabble for hours and hours, only with more sheep.

Yet if I were playing video games or watching television, people would say I was wasting my time, rotting my brain, getting crumbs on the sofa. This despite the fact that with television I use two senses, not just one, and with video games I develop hand-eye coordination. The only hand-eye coordination I get from reading is flinging the book across the room when I realize that The Assistants by Camille Perri is not at all “addictive, hilarious and smart” as promised on the now bent back cover.

What reading does to a man.

And flinging that book? That’s the most exercise I get. With reading, all you do is sit when you could be out supporting the burgeoning gym-membership economy. No one wants well read people anymore. We want well sculpted people. If you have any doubt what reading does to a body, I am a lifetime reader, ladies and gentleman.

Reading is lazy, impractical and non-productive. What great achievements have been made while reading? Was Neil Armstrong reading when he stepped on the moon? Was Hank Aaron reading when he broke Babe Ruth’s home run record? Was Rosa Parks reading when she sat down on that bus? Possibly, it was a long bus ride. But even so, this fact is overshadowed, as by now must be clear, by the principle of the lima bean.

There are those who will argue that reading promotes empathy and open-mindedness. I know people who spend all day reading Twitter, and they are in no way open-minded, though they are masters of the ironic hashtag.

Sure, reading has exposed me to exotic people living in exotic places like India, China, Winnipeg. But if instead of reading I had worked extra hours and earned extra money, I could have travelled to all those exotic places and stayed in resorts and been served drinks by all those exotic people.

As a “good” reader, I’ve been trying to read more novels by women, and where possible women of colour. Despite this, I still feel like a white, middle-aged male; that is, bad about myself all the time. Have people sometimes called me a bit of a woman? Yes, but not because of the reading. Not entirely.

Recently I read an article (of course I did) that stated that people are losing the ability to concentrate on reading because of the distractions of cell phones. The article went further to point out that reading is a relatively recent learned behaviour and that being distracted is our natural state – looking around for predators, real estate agents and other dangers. If ever there was a time to pay attention to danger (via the Google Danger app), it’s now, so good riddance reading.

Certainly, we’re learning that you can get by without reading. You can even become president of the United States.

Yes, reading brings you joy, but this is 2018. We are so over joy.

That’s all I have to say on the matter. Thank you for reading. Now stop it.

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50 alternative celebrations for Canadian Olympic medalists

Third placed silver medalist Alex Gough of Canada waves a Canadian flag after the Women’s Luge Singles competition at the Olympic Sliding Centre during the PyeongChang 2018 Olympic Games, South Korea, 13 February 2018. EPA/JEON HEON-KYUN

  1. Raise a fist in the air.
  2. Raise both fists in the air.
  3. Raise one fist in the air and with the other fist pretend to write your signature on a lucrative sponsorship deal for Bart’s Anti-Chafing Sauce.
  4. Keep your arms flat against your side but stick both hands out and waddle like a penguin. Level of difficulty +2 if you do this while strapped to a snowboard.
  5. Point to the crowd.
  6. Point to the crowd and yell, “Those glasses don’t suit the shape of your face!”
  7. Kiss the ground.
  8. Lick the ground.
  9. Make slow, sweet love to the ground but only after obtaining unambiguous consent from the ground.
  10. Adjust yourself, flamboyantly.
  11. Breastfeed, defiantly.
  12. Lead the crowd in a rousing chant of “Mor-de-cai! Mor-de-cai!”
  13. Hug your parents.
  14. Hug your partner.
  15. Hug your dog.
  16. Call security because there should not be dogs allowed at this event, clearly.
  17. Hug a stranger but only after obtaining unambiguous consent from the stranger.
  18. Lead the crowd in singing the opening theme to “The Beachcombers.”
  19. Cry ugly for 12 straight minutes.
  20. Grab a bottle of water and gargle loudly for as long as possible.
  21. Deal openly with your daddy issues.
  22. Approach the crowd and take a Canadian flag from a cheering spectator.
  23. Return to the crowd and apologize to spectator for taking his flag.
  24. Wrap the Canadian flag around your shoulders.
  25. Wrap the Canadian flag around your waist.
  26. Wrap the Canadian flag in festive paper and attach a gift card that reads, “To Canada, with sincerest affection.”
  27. Wrap the Canadian flag around your face in recognition of the plight of our First Nations peoples.
  28. Wrap the Canadian flag around your head like a turban because it looks pretty.
  29. Stuff the Canadian flag into your fist, then open it and, voila! Disappeared!
  30. Celebrate vigorously then quickly begin agonizing about Canada winning so many medals, wondering aloud whether this is the Canadian way and whether it changes the nature of who we are as a nation.
  31. Taunt an American.
  32. Tell reporters you’ve had a dream since you were a child, and in that dream, former “Baywatch” model Kimberly-Ann Thiessen becomes a bank robber, only it turns out there wasn’t a Kimberly-Ann Thiessen on “Baywatch”; it was Tiffani Thiessen, so “Kimberly-Ann” must be her criminal alias, and while you’re helping her buy hiking gear, she starts having a face on the back of her head too, then briefly transforms into a beast before finally becoming a giant baby chick with laserbeam eyes. And then you wake up to discover you’ve wet the bed.
  33. Take advantage of this rare public platform to earnestly remind people that the 2017 CBC Canada Read’s panel totally blew it. #neverforget
  34. Make other obscure references that only Canadians will understand, and very few of them at that.
  35. Thank your parents.
  36. Thank your coaches.
  37. Thank Honeymoon Suite.
  38. Remind all the young people out there watching that “podium” is not a verb.
  39. As the national anthem is played, stomp your feet to the beat in a tribute to beloved Canadian music icon Stompin’ Tom Connors.
  40. Sing along with the national anthem but change the lyrics to “If you’ve got Trouble, wait don’t run, this kind of Trouble is lots of fun! Pop-O-Matic pops the dice. Pop a six and you move twice! We stand on guard for thee.”
  41. Bite your medal.
  42. Coat your medal in Nutella.
  43. Coat yourself in Nutella.
  44. Fit the whole medal in your mouth.
  45. Smack yourself hard in the face with your medal and take advantage of free, convenient Canadian health care.
  46. Legally change your name to Goldie McMedalist.
  47. Release the doves of peace from your pants.
  48. Graciously offer to do a Timmies run.
  49. Return to your day job and relative obscurity for the next four years.
  50.  Tweet.
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Death goals

“What do you want to do,” I asked Deb, “when you die?”

It’s a funny way to phrase it, I admit. It’s not like she’s going to have a packed itinerary. No sightseeing tours, no dinner with friends. Bowling is out the question.

I meant what does she want us to do with her when she dies — eventually; don’t worry.

It’s a legitimate question. Deb turns… a certain age this year, and I’m a couple of years ahead of her. We’re healthy, but we might as well start planning while we can, even though right now we couldn’t pay for a funeral to save our life.

“I don’t want to be buried,” Deb answered. “Cremation.”

“But what about your ashes? What do you want us to do with them?”

“It depends on the kids. They might want a place where they can visit us.”

Deb’s a municipal councillor now, and she likes to walk the local trail. I suggested spreading her ashes along the path during a particularly icy day, which would simultaneously honour her memory and make a civic contribution. Tribute and traction.

“Do you want a service? Visitation?”

“No visitation,” she said. “All those people standing around… Have a party. Or a potluck. Rent a hall or something.”

“I want a parade,” I said.

“Okay.”

Easy for her to say. I’ll be dead. For all I know, she could bury me lying on my stomach so that, at least in the afterlife, I’ll finally stop snoring. She could sneak my ashes into a construction site, mix them into the cement, and next thing I know I’m a Domino’s Restaurant. (Rest in pizza.) She could bury me in the back yard along with the pets (a cat, two hamsters and counting), which actually isn’t outside the realm of possibility.

I won’t have a say in the matter. Nor should I really. Funerals and burials aren’t for the dead. They’re for the living, a way for them to manage their grief, say goodbye, get free casseroles. That’s why it gets under my skin (decomposition joke) when someone says, “Alfred would have loved this,” or, “It’s what Alfred would have wanted.” What Alfred really would have wanted, probably, was to still be alive.

Deb and I were walking while we were having this conversation, one of those crazy long walks she likes. (Her funeral procession will be a 10K hike; “Debbie would have loved this.”)

“What about you?” she asked. “Do you want to be cremated?”

“I think so, yeah,” I said. “But what would you do with me after that? I don’t want to be on a shelf. I don’t want to be clutter.” We have enough clutter. And the thing with clutter is you stop noticing it after a while, and then one day you wind up in a yard sale for 50 cents.

“I can bury you in the park and build a statue of you,” Deb suggested.

“Cool. Can you enhance the statue? Know what I mean? ‘Enhance’?”

“Maybe I’ll make it really tall so the kids can swing on you.” Always thinking about her community that wife of mine. (Re-elect Debbie Bishop 2021.)

The conversation continued at home, circling back to consulting our children on the matter, or in this case, child.

“It’s up to you,” Abby said. “You’re the one in the ground. Or how about we throw your body in the sea.”

“Let’s go on a cruise and try it out,” said Deb. “But do it on the way back so at least we get our money’s worth.”

The discussion eventually led to a contemplation with Abby on the very nature of death, whether there’s an afterlife or whether all that awaits us is the black void of final, unfathomable nothingness.

“I want to come back as an eagle!” she said.

We may laugh in the shadows but there’s no getting over the fact that it’s death, the last thing anyone wants to deal with, except perhaps insurance. “I don’t want to think about this anymore,” Abby said. “You’re not going to die for like another 20 years.” I’m grateful she’s at least allotted me my threescore and ten.

We ended up no further ahead. No solid plans made, no novelty urns ordered, no singalongs selected. (“Feeling Yourself Disintegrate” by The Flaming Lips?) We’ll have to get real about it at some point. But I do know one thing right now: no selfies with the corpse. It’s what I will have would have wanted.

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A father talks to his sons about being better men

Boys, you probably feel bad these days about being male, and you should. We’ve been terrible. Not you, specifically, but the rest of us. My generation definitely. But it wasn’t our fault. It was… the patriarchy. And the funny thing is, back then, we didn’t even know the patriarchy existed, but it did, boy oh boy! And was it fun.

Hot in the 80s.

No! The patriarchy was the worst, especially if you didn’t belong to it, even though, sex-wise, things were pretty tame back then. We didn’t have your leggings and your cleavage and your booties like today. And breasts were just these vague ideas under heavy-knit sweaters. Like flak jackets, those things.

But that didn’t stop us guys from treating girls horribly. When I think of the way we talked about what we did (or mostly imagined we’d do) with girls, like it was some kind of sporting event: getting to first base, getting to third base, choking up on the bat, using too much pine tar, dog on the field, rain delay…

But, boys, sex is not a competition. We have to stop thinking in terms of conquering our opponent. It’s not fair. Because girls aren’t as good at sports as men. That’s not sexist! It’s a fact. Venus and Serena who? Never heard of them.

So, no, sex isn’t like a competitive sport, and definitely not a contact sport, let’s make that clear. If you must have a sports allegory, sex is more like a footrace, where both participants run as teammates, respectfully, side by side, urging each other to reach their goal. But, again, the man usually finishes first.

But I don’t want to get bogged down in the mechanics of sex and the need for proper footwear and how to prevent cramping and blisters, etcetera, etcetera. What I’m trying to say is that society is finally saying no to men just “expecting” sex. Again, I’m older, I’ve been married a long time; I don’t expect sex. But you boys maybe do. And what women are saying is, essentially, you’re just going to have to be nicer about it.

With everything going on, you may feel like sex and romance are simply too dangerous, that anything you do will be misconstrued or, worse, perceived as non-consensual. But that’s not what the movement is about.

Look: Imagine your sex drive is an all-terrain vehicle. It serves a very specific purpose, namely helping with chores around the farm, on private property, as nature intended. Making little baby all-terrain vehicles. That’s nice.

Okay, but sometimes you want to tear through the woods with your all-terrain vehicle, just for kicks – make a lot of noise, go real fast, waste energy, annoy the neighbours. Maybe do it with other people, whatever’s your thing, man. But there are rules. You can’t go too fast. You need to wear protection. And you can’t do it on public roads. As long as everyone agrees to the rules, it may look really stupid but everyone has a good time and no one gets hurt.

But then you get those jackasses who drive their all-terrain vehicles on the walking path, and they tear it all up and leave ruts. Deep, deep ruts! Scars in the path that will never heal! Well, until the town guys come and grade it. But these jackasses have no consideration for other people because their all-terrain vehicles are big and fast and not properly licenced, and it makes it very difficult to walk, and the police do absolutely nothing! God, I hate all-terrain vehicles! They’re the worst. We should ban them altogether!

What were we talking about?

Oh yes. Sex. Basically, don’t be a jackass. No rutting.

Also, don’t feel you have to be the alpha male. It’s not a coincidence that “alpha” starts with “A” like a certain other word. Just be yourself, be honest. If that’s who you are, you should feel perfectly comfortable walking up to a woman at a bar and saying, “Baby, I’m gonna make you cringe.”

So, like I said, boys, we made this mess, but you can make it right. Just take heed of what’s happening, treat women with fairness, kindness and respect, and soon we’ll have a happier, more equitable society.

Of course, the other day, I read a Facebook thread from a bunch of women who said they were only attracted to men who treated them badly. You know: jackasses.

So it turns out we all have work to do. Get your sisters in here.

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If my nose is running, my thoughts are leaking

Those scientists, always doing studies. It’s as if they have nothing better to do. Instead of “studying” things, why aren’t they working on those jet cars we were promised? Where’s my pill in a meal? And the current lack of teleportation is the great disappointment of my generation, second only to the career of Judd Nelson.

A co-worker recently sent me a link to a study that determined that people (like me) who drink their coffee black are more likely to be psychopaths. I swear if she sends me a link like that again, I will cut her!

Of course, for every study there’s a counter study. In response to the coffee findings, I decided to Google “Why black coffee drinkers are the best.” I found a reply, of course, but it was from some website called “BroBible,” which didn’t convince me that black coffee would allow me to “get shredded, show your Dad Bod the middle finger and get laid,” but it did make me fully embrace the impending demise of the Y chromosome, as predicted in, yes, a recent study.

My favourite study of the past year was one that concluded that middle-aged sex keeps the brain sharp. I imagine this finding led to countless husbands turning to their wives and saying, “Hey, honey, you’re looking kind of stupid tonight, so howzabout…?” In other research, middle-age divorce rates continue to climb.

This week, though, I read about a newly released study that found that having a cold nose means you are thinking too hard. The news story didn’t explain how researchers quantified “thinking too hard.” Did it mean trying to work out a difficult math problem? Or trying to remember the title song for the madcap 80s sit-com “Perfect Strangers”?

The cold-nose researchers are hoping to use these findings to measure workload stress in employees without disrupting actual workflow. Instead, facial monitoring will indicate when employees need a break. Of course, they will also need hidden cameras to ensure that workers aren’t sneaking off to stick their face in the ice machine.

The reason the nose gets cold is that heavy concentration alters breathing. (Heavy breathing also alters concentration, but let’s leave what the judge explained to me about “improper phone behaviour” for another time.) This diverts blood to the brain at the expense of the extremities, your nose being one such extremity.

But like Gene Hackman in the late 90s, blood is everywhere, which means other extremities must be vulnerable as well. This leads one to wonder what the cooling of other body parts might indicate, and by “one” I mean “me” and not researchers, who, it turns out, do have better things to do.

Cold ears: You are thinking too hard about all your exes and wondering whether they are living happy lives, though you secretly hope not.

Cold forehead: You are driving with your head hanging out the window again.

Cold left hand: You are on the verge of creating a new literary genre, Oh-Wellian fiction, in which everybody lives in an oppressive, dystopian society but just kind of deals with it.

Cold feet: Studies show that there is a 40 percent chance you will soon be sleeping on the sofa.

Tingling Ring Finger: You have just come to the realization that the totality of your life’s romantic success has nothing to do with looks or personality but consistently good lighting.

Throbbing kneecap: You have just come to the realization that morning riots are the most important mêlée of the day.

Sensitive inside elbow: Don’t let a difference of opinions keep you from your goals, sensitive inside elbow person. Friends and co-workers will come around to your point of view through a combination of reasoned argument and anonymous threatening texts. Remember that there is no “I” in “team” but there is an “I” in “grapefruit,” so you should probably eat more grapefruit. Pisces figures promiscuously. Money matters.

Frosted tips: No.

Frosty reception: Should have brought a hostess gift.

Chilly Willy: A highly underrated cartoon character.

Cool Runnings: An underrated 90s movie that did not star Gene Hackman or (obviously) Judd Nelson.

I hope this guide will be useful to you so that you know at all times what your body is doing. And I can assure you, as I’m certain you can guess, that right now my nose is very, very warm.

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A bad week for words

If you were in Hawaii last Saturday, you may have suffered 40 minutes of uncertainty when someone accidentally pressed a button warning that a ballistic missile was heading your way. I suppose it must have been horrible, but screw you! You were in Hawaii! Have you see the weather here?

The message people saw on their phones read as follows:

Clearly, this is a distressing message to read, but in my opinion not distressing enough.

I appreciate the all-caps, like an office worker complaining via email about the purloining of clearly labeled lunchroom snacks, but where are the exclamation marks? Or rather, where are the exclamation marks! If ever there was a call for exclamation marks, imminent destruction by a hostile foreign power is one.

People throw around exclamation marks like crazy. They’ve become virtually standard. You can no longer answer a text with a simple “Thanks.” It has to be “Thanks!” Otherwise, people are going to think you’re a selfish, ungrateful jerk-face. But more on Donald Trump later.

“Have a nice day!” “On sale now!” “Put some pants on!” All these are occasions when we happily apply one if not multiple exclamation marks. So clearly the emergency alert people should have capitalized on the drama with “THIS IS NOT A DRILL!!!”

And plain black Arial? No. This is no time for the blandest, least deadly of all the fonts. Cooper Black, Franklin Gothic Heavy, maybe even break out the Copperplate Gothic. “Comic Sans is the last font I want to see,” people would say, and in this case they might be right.

And it should be flashing like an early 2000s MySpace page. That’s how you get people’s attention just before they “take shelter” (as if that’s going to help.)

Incidentally, around here, I don’t think we have an emergency alert system. Instead, you just tell someone at the post office and in half an hour everyone knows.

But back to Hawaii (I wish!), it turned out not to be a real emergency, so in a way it was lucky this lacklustre, punctuation-starved alert had such little visual impact, otherwise there might have been real panic. Shortly after, a second alert was issued:

Again, lack of enthusiasm, poor punctuation. It should be “Repeat: False alarm.” Sloppy all-clears like this make me want to… EXPLODE! Like an intercontinental ballistic missile! And why can’t I go to Hawaii!!!

Also, I’m not sensing any real remorse in that second alert, no “whoops, our bad.” Surely it wouldn’t have hurt to add a ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ ?

No one can explain how that first text got out, but the same can’t be said for President Trump. He knew exactly what he was doing last week when he described certain countries using a word that I can’t write in this family blog. Instead, I’ll write “sith-hole,” which, let’s say, is a place where Star Wars bad guys hang out, though I know you’re saying the actual word in your head right now, and for that I’m sorry. I’m sorry your brain has a filthy mouth.

There are no good substitutes for the word Trump used, no effective euphemisms. (Crumb-bum countries? Anus nations?) Consequently, news media were forced to break protocol and use the profanity, over and over and over. Outwardly, the standards people probably struggled with this decision, but the journalists themselves were undoubtedly delighted, since it is well know that journalists are the least mature of all professionals. Except maybe clown-fart inspectors. And humour writers.

But more disturbing than this breach of decorum — and, honestly, at this point, what is there left to breach? — is the spelling. I keep seeing it written as one word. That can’t be right. There has to be a hyphen in there, or two words. Otherwise, there’s the risk of running the T and the H together, making it sound like “shy thole.” And who among us hasn’t had a shy thole at one time or another?

And, yes, I’ve checked: “sith-hole” (the real word, the one I made you think again, written as one word) is not acceptable in Scrabble. But after this week, it might soon be.

So what do we take away from all this? 1. Hawaii is too close to North Korea. 2. If I were in charge of emergency alerts, Armageddon would really “POP!” 3. Language and how we use it are changing all the time. 4. Donald Trump is quite the sith-head.

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The spit is in the mail

My grandfather Harry Murray.

For Christmas, our eldest daughter ordered me an ancestry DNA kit. Through analysis of my genetic source code, I will soon know exactly where I come from and whom to blame.

That’s really what we look for when we begin researching our ancestry: culpability. Up to now, I’ve only been able to attribute my shortcomings to my parents, but soon I’ll have an entire Old World to pin them on.

When I open a new package of English muffins before finishing the old one, I’ll be able to say to my wife, “It’s not me, it’s my Germanic roots. Don’t you know the Germans traditionally leave a pastry behind for Saint Adalbert of Magdeburg? What: oh, the blob of jam on the counter? Das ist ein Potsjammer Splatz.”

Curiously, Deb and I have already had our DNA tested. We are both carriers of a mutation that resulted in our youngest daughter’s metabolic condition, tyrosinemia. As part of medical research to track the provenance of the mutation, we both gave a blood sample a couple of years ago. Tyrosinemia is relatively common in Quebec, and there is a corresponding Quebec mutation. There is also a northern European mutation. Deb’s family has been in Quebec for a few generations, so we assumed she had the Quebec variety, while I, an interloper with Scottish roots, would reveal the European variety along with a high tolerance for haggis.

The opposite turned out to be the case. I have the Quebec mutation, Deb the European variety. That’s essentially all we learned. Neither of us discovered, for instance, whether we were descended from a Romanian viscount or even what exactly is a “viscount.”

My cousin Jeanne, meanwhile, has been doing Murray family research, and about a year ago she told me that one of my ancestors was a Scot who was a member of the 78th Highlanders in Quebec City. Did he marry a French-Canadian girl? Is there a little French in me? Am I all out of excuses for speaking French so badly?

This new DNA kit may offer a few more details about this and the further commingling of my genes. Moreover, the company, with my permission, will put me in touch with other people who share my genetic roots. Pretty cool, but I tell you right now, I am not sending them Christmas cards.

The sample kit arrived this week, and I excitedly opened it to see what was involved. It turns out the “D” in “DNA” stands for “drool.” To complete the testing, I was required to fill up a small vial with my saliva. I don’t know why I couldn’t just send them my pillow.

Before dribbling into the plastic tube, however, I had to wait a half hour after eating, no doubt to ensure that I don’t get results indicating that I am 90% Dutch and 10% Moroccan chicken.

Next, I shook the sample up with some blue stuff. It said it was some kind of stabilizer but I think it’s to make the sample look less spitty, because some poor slob is going to have to handle this saliva of mine, someone clearly living the dream foretold by his or her high school guidance counsellor who, one afternoon during Period 5, uttered the fateful words: “Have you ever considered spittle…?”

This someone is in Ireland, it so happens. That’s where I’ll be mailing my tube o’ goober. Sadly, this will be the closest I’ve ever come to traveling abroad.

What will having this ancestry information change? Nothing at a practical level. But establishing that connection to a time and place going back generations creates a sense that we’re not merely some momentary speck of existence in history. We’re a continuation. There’s something reassuring in that. Plus – and, again, I can’t stress this enough – more cultural stereotypes to pin my faults on.

I’ve completed my kit as of this writing. Through a mix-up in the order process, Deb has one too. She’ll likewise be able to track her ancestry and, between the two of us, our children will have a complete picture of their ethnic and geographical roots.

As I was sealing up my sample for mailing, Deb said, “Whoever came up with this idea is bloody brilliant.”

Spitty brilliant,” I corrected.

She glared at me.

Don’t blame me; it’s the Flemish talking.

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